Life in couple
If your spouse is extinguished desire for sex and if the words "not tonight dear" are starting to become common, it is best not to draw hasty conclusions.
The reasons for his behavior can be numerous. The fact that you refuse are not directly related to the lack of love. Here are the main causes of male desire to quench the desire for tranquility to the unbridled imagination.
1. He urges calm after a long day
If he enters every night in his lair, it can cause communication break. Maybe your spouse is not understand how I feel his absence, so do not hesitate to express your love. Find something that despite daily fatigue, will relax you both, like to drink from a glass of wine, shared reading or watching a movie. Do not let time be inserted between you find the right way to relax your husband.
2. He has the mind of children
Many parents have a very good sex life, but there are those husbands who after childbirth view as partner and mother of his children rather than their wife. Another killer good sexual relationship with her husband is putting the children in the family spotlight. To be more quiet, clean your room for games, photos of children, even from their clothes.
3. He wants to follow the game or play games
Talking face to face as women want, not the way normal male behavior. They prefer to follow the game as you turn a quick response. Do you force your spouse to pay attention when playing or watching television. Instead, you can sit next to him and to follow both the TV. Marriage is not merely nice spending time with each other, but also stay together in other situations.
4. It is forbidden week of the month
Generally men think that women should be left undisturbed during periods because they do not like so much sex and messy. But if that particular month period was increased hormone levels, publish against him informed and take a nice experience.
5. He wants sex come spontaneously
Avoid having sex simply from the fact that this should be done. Greatest joy comes in random and spontaneous moments. Even if you have previously predicted what would happen in the evening to find the right way to say, maybe a little getting dressed or otherwise cooked his favorite food. Take your kids to grandparents and create a suitable environment for romance.
6. He is anxious for his performance
Given that the man has a key role in the relationship and not always consistent, he feels under pressure to fulfill his duties. To stand out to find his swing ever, he will not fail you, nor even humbled himself. Instead, find an alternative way of satisfaction.
7. He sees more porn
Spending time online does not mean that he is not attracted by you, or that you will not pay much attention. But the endless amount of images of all kinds, can reduce desire and cause male erectile disorder. If his hunger for certain Internet material is grown, it will necessarily decrease the sexual desire with you at home. The best way to deal with this problem is sincerity and finding an appropriate therapist.
8. Is concerned to work
It's a good idea to agree on the time spent with one another to switch off mobile and stop checking work emails. However Be tolerant when it comes to emergency calls. Sometimes problems of lower self-esteem in men and increase concerns about your career or economic status. Understand your spouse and give confidence that problems will get together.
9. He will sleep
Sleep is hard to play, if the spouse is exhausted, do not try in vain, try to find the appropriate moment to be with. His desire to sleep is not related to the failure to you, but his own body needs rest.
10. It is not safe for your love
After strong masculine appearance, is more a creature of the swing, I do not know for sure whether love of his wife. Make it known that in every moment and in every situation. This will increase the quality of your sex life.
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